7 Ways to Plan a Wedding That Feels Like You!

Planning your wedding can feel like navigating a sea of traditions, expectations, other peoples opinions and Pinterest boards but at the heart of it all, your wedding day should feel like you and reflect you and your partners likes, personalities and love story. 

Here’s how to plan a wedding that’s as individual as your relationship; that is filled with thoughtful touches, memorable details and heartfelt keepsakes that you’ll treasure forever. 

1. Start with Your Story 

Before booking venues or choosing colour palettes, sit down with your partner and talk about what matters most to you. What moments define your relationship? What are your shared values, inside jokes, or favourite memories? Discuss what you want your big day to look like and not what everyone around you wants.

These personal details are the perfect foundation for building a wedding that goes beyond a “theme” and truly tells your story. Perhaps your first trip away together was in the Lake District, so you choose that as your wedding location. Or you bonded over indie music, so you walk down the aisle to an acoustic version of your favourite track. Whatever your story, it’s meaningful and worth telling. 

2. Let Your Venue Set the Mood 

Your venue is the backdrop to your entire day, so choose one that speaks to your personality. A rustic barn might be perfect for laid-back couples who love the countryside, while an art gallery or industrial space could suit those with a modern, creative edge. 

But don’t feel tied to expectations! You can transform any space with thoughtful styling, lighting and music. Choose a place where you feel at ease, where the atmosphere aligns with who you are and not just what’s trending. 

3. Personalise the Ceremony 

While the reception often gets the most creative energy, the ceremony is the emotional heart of your wedding day. Make it personal. Write your own vows, invite a friend to officiate or include cultural or family traditions that resonate with you. 

You can also incorporate symbolic gestures that mean something to you as a couple, like planting a tree together, tying a knot, lighting a candle or reading a favourite poem. The beauty of a wedding is that it doesn’t have to follow a script. 

4. Curate Meaningful Décor 

The most memorable weddings are full of intentional details that reflect the couple’s tastes and personalities. Whether that’s vintage record sleeves as table numbers, Polaroid photo garlands, or hand-drawn signage by a friend, the décor is a brilliant way to weave in your shared passions. 

Even your tablescapes can speak volumes, think handwritten menus, meaningful table names or family heirlooms incorporated into your centrepieces.  

5. Make the Menu Yours 

Tastes and smells can instantly transport you to a moment in time and the right dish can unlock a whole memory, so your menu could be a delicious way to express yourselves. Think beyond the standard three-course meal and curated dishes that are served at every wedding and feel impersonal. Maybe that means wood-fired pizzas if you had your first date at an Italian, a curry bar inspired by your travels or just your favourite meal that you like to make together. 

Even your cake can tell a story, whether through flavours, design or a personal topper. Also, don’t forget about your drinks as signature cocktails named after inside jokes or beloved pets always bring a smile. 

6. Favour What You Love 

Wedding favours can be as creative and personal as you like. Think handwritten notes tucked under each place setting, mini jars of your favourite jam or little USB sticks loaded with a playlist of songs that mean something to you as a couple or remind you of time spent with that guest. Some couples even choose to donate to a charity close to their hearts in their guests’ names. The best favours aren’t about how much you spend, they’re about the thought behind them. Something small and personal will always feel more special than something generic. It’s those heartfelt touches that people remember long after the day is over.

7. Don’t Be Afraid to Break the Rules 

Ultimately, the most personality-packed weddings are the ones that let go of the “should.” You don't have to wear a white dress. You don’t have to have a cake cutting. You don't have to have a first dance and you don't have to follow any tradition that doesn’t resonate with you. 

If you want to walk down the aisle together holding hands, do it! If you want your dog to be your ring bearer, go for it! If you want to have a group dance instead of a first dance, then why not!

Final Thoughts 

Your wedding is a reflection of your love story, your style and your personalities. Every decision, from venue to vows, is a chance to say, “This is who we are.” So, make it count, make it beautiful and make it you!