How we transform your guests handwriting in to a beautiful keepsake

When it comes to weddings, every detail is thoughtfully chosen – from the dress to the flowers to the vows. But what about the words your loved ones share with you on the day? Here at Mr and Missive, we believe those messages deserve to be more than just notes in a book or messages in a card tucked away in a drawer. They deserve to be seen, celebrated and cherished forever.

That’s why we created a unique wedding guest book alternative – one that transforms your guests’ handwritten messages into a work of art. It’s a keepsake with heart, filled with love, personality, and the beautiful individuality of handwriting. Here’s how we turn those heartfelt words into a meaningful and luxurious personalised wedding gift you’ll treasure for a lifetime.

Step One: A Seamless Experience on Your Wedding Day

Here at Mr & Missive we know that planning a wedding is stressful. so we make it as easy as possible for you! Ahead of your big day, we send you a thoughtfully curated kit that includes everything you need: high-quality postcards, thoroughly tested pens that produce the perfect image when printed and full instructions for your guests. All you need to do is display it on a dedicated table at your reception, or on your wedding breakfast tables, and invite your loved ones to leave you a message.

Guests can write heartfelt wishes, marriage advice, memories, or even inside jokes – anything they want to say to you. Unlike traditional guest books where people often feel pressured to write something profound in front of others, our postcards give them the freedom to take their time and speak from the heart.

Step Two: The Magic Begins - Collecting and Digitising

After your wedding day we will send you an online design form to complete and a prepaid postage label to return your completed postcards - and that’s when the transformation begins.

Every card is handled with care. We carefully digitise each message, preserving the unique loops, flourishes, and quirks that make each person’s handwriting so special. These aren’t typed-out messages or generic fonts – they’re authentic, personal notes from the people who know and love you the most.

If there are any messages that have crossings out on them; smudges, mistakes or maybe something written on them that you don't want to be included, this is where we can skillfully remove them. We guarantee that no one will ever notice that these missives have been changed and you do get to keep the original postcards, but no embarrassing messages will be included that you don't want to be!

This stage is also where we can include handwriting from loved ones who couldn’t attend – or even those who are no longer with us. If you have a card, letter or note from a loved one who has passed away, we can include their handwriting in the design. It’s one of the most meaningful aspects of what we do, and a reason why many couples choose our keepsake as a way to honour someone special.

Step Three: Designing Your Unique Keepsake

Once all the messages are digitised, we begin designing your unique artwork. We offer a range of design collections – from our romantic Floral Collection to our timeless Signature Collection, or even our Portrait Collection that includes your favourite photograph – so you can choose a style that reflects your personality, home decor and wedding aesthetic.

At the centre of your piece, we add a personalised design element: this could be your names and wedding date, a meaningful lyric or quote or the coordinates of where you met or got married. Then each message is carefully positioned around the centrepiece, making sure that your most special missives are placed centrally and any stitched messages are balanced and equal throughout the design.

The beauty of this process is in the variety – no two keepsakes are the same. Each one is shaped by the people who love you, the words they chose, and the style you select. It truly is a personalised wedding gift that you will treasure forever.

 

 

Step Four: Printing and Stitching

Once your design is finalised and approved, we carefully print it onto luxurious, high-quality fabric. Unlike paper, fabric gives your keepsake a timeless, tactile depth. It’s soft yet strong and made to last a lifetime.

Then comes the stitching. Every handwritten message that you choose to have stitched is done so using a process known as free machine embroidery. Essentially we draw with our sewing machine needle to recreate the missive precisely, ensuring that the individual handwriting is preserved exactly as it was written. These stitched messages give the Mr & Missive dimension and a subtle texture that catches the light, highlighting your most precious missives. The threads used are carefully chosen to complement your design, and the stitching helps preserve the essence of each message while adding a layer of craftsmanship.

This combination of digital design and traditional textile techniques is what makes our keepsakes so special, unique and truly personal.

 

 

Step Five: Framed and Ready to Display

Your finished Mr & Missive is framed in a beautiful wooden frame, with a mount in your chosen colour, and will arrive ready to hang in your home as a daily reminder of the love that surrounded you on your wedding day.

Unlike a traditional guest book that’s packed away on a shelf, our keepsakes are designed to be proudly displayed. They become part of your story and a piece of your home that brings back the joy and emotion of your wedding day every time you look at it.

 

Why Couples Love Our Wedding Guest Book Alternative

We’ve been told by brides, grooms and their loved ones that our keepsakes are “the most meaningful thing” that they have from their wedding. And we believe that’s because they go beyond decoration – they’re deeply personal. They preserve the actual handwriting of the people you love – the squiggly lines, the loops, the unmistakable signatures. They tell the story of your day, not just through images, but through words that are full of personality and affection.

If you're looking for a wedding guest book alternative that captures the spirit of your day and the people who made it special, our keepsake is the perfect choice. It’s also a beautiful personalised wedding gift – one that brings together sentiment, design, and craftsmanship in one unforgettable piece.

If you would like to find out more about our Mr & Missive wedding guest book alternatives take a look Here or get in contact with us Here if you would like to find out more information about reserving your wedding date and purchasing your Mr & Missive.